Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Perfect Guy

Is there such thing as a perfect guy out there for everyone? Is there such thing as a soulmate? Well according to my parents, their expectations for their 5 daughters are highly overrated and beyond possible. The "perfect guy" is a tall, Vietnamese, catholic, a doctor, handsome, and knows how to treat a woman. Is there even such thing as a guy out there that's like that? I doubt it. I don't understand why do my parents expect so much when it's not possible. We live in a country that's known for its diversity, and different cultures. Therefore, it's extremely hard to find a Vietnamese guy with all the characteristics. I just wish that my parents could understand that there's no such thing as a perfect guy out there, especially not in today's society. I also don't understand why do they have to choose who we have to date, instead of ourselves. In the longrun, it's us that will be with this guy, not them. So why do they care and why does it matter to them. It's so hard to live with the fact that my parents basically come from a different world, and still lives in the old days with all the traditions. I only wish they could just accept the fact that this country is not Vietnam, and the century has completely changed. Coming from a family with so many expectations is extremely difficult without a doubt =/

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